HOW TO MAKE A BOYFRIEND

 In the past,  women were shy to asking for date and men were supposed to make everthing. They are supposed to be brave and persistent. However this condition have changed in recently years. From now on, women also have been courageous and they are self-reliant enough to asking for a date to men, but they do not behave like men. They do not ask directly. To making a boyfriend, they have some tips and steps. Now i want to explain these steps J

1)    Make sure he doesn't have a girlfriend . Also, you have to be aware that if he just went through a break up, he might just be on rebound. The feelings wouldn't be what you are seeking.  So you have to stay away from this type of men

2)   Make the first move. If you find a man who you share a lot in common with, don't wait for them to ask you to hang out. He might be shy, so he might not be the one to approach, because he thinks you might reject him. If you love books, invite them to the library or a poetry night with you. Do something he might share in common with you.

3)   Take it slow. Try not to be that girl who looks too desperate. Do not rush him. Give each other space. Usually, if you hit it off really well and have a lot of fun together, the friendship will tend to automatically grow into more frequent visits.

4)   Smile. When he is looking at you, just smile. Humans respond to smiles intensely and immediately, and when heading towards a man of your choice, he'll get a powerful non-verbal message that you're nice and approachable. Even if you've never spoken before, he'll be compelled to notice and eventually say hello to you if you keep eye contact and smile.

5)   Be approachable. This is especially important if he's the kind of guy who's used to having girls approach him. Do nothing at first but lock eyes, smile, and turn your attention elsewhere or keep walking. Then he will come to near you.

6)   Engage him to talk. He won't know that you're great unless you've aroused his desire to know.

7)   Try to become friends. Most guys tend to date girls who they have more things in common than just the "relationship" stuff. Being close friends with him makes it easier for you to interact with him.

8)   Keep going. Keep meeting and hanging out with other people. Before you know it, you'll have a whole circle of friends. Variety is the spice of life, so it's important to build a network of friends.

9)   Show him that you would be a good fit for him. You can do this by sharing common interests such as certain music, but not overdoing it.

10) Make him feel important Guys seek status to satisfy their ego and as a female, a male's perception of your status is vital to how much he values you because in a way it reflects his own status.

11)  Don't criticize him harshly. Being criticized by a girl might make guy stay away from you. Do not criticize him harsly, buy you can tell in a mild way.

12) Just be yourself. If you're not, then how else would you know if he likes you or not for who you are? If you are pretending to be someone you are not, you will feel uncomfortable every time you are around him and that is the last thing you would like to happen.

                                       CAN WOMEN AND MEN BE FRİENDS?

   Can women and men be friends?  I think there is no absolute answer for this question. It can be answered according to men’s perspective and women’s perspective. First of all i want to explain from the sight of women as i can do. Women are innocent, emotional etc. If someone take care of them, they will be happy. Their friends’ sexs are not important for them, because they keen on the relationship, well-enough communication. If they can tell everything to their male friends, it can alright for them to be friend.  They can do something together and this does not disturb women as long as they have no emotional feeling to each other. This can be answered “yes” by women honestly.

From the men’s perspective, this condition maybe is not valid for them. Men always think of “sex”.  Even Freud thinks no men can be friends with women whom they do not want to have sex relationship. I partially agree with this idea. I think most men have sexual desire women at first. Maybe with time, men decrease this feeling and can be friends with women. However men are not as emotional as women. Maybe they do not tell everything to women as women do. So i do not think  there are men who can absolutely say that i can be friend with women.

When it comes to my thought, i can be friends with a men, but i cannot tell everything to them. As a women, my problems are different from theirs. Maybe my problem is not important for them, even it can be silly for a man. I can easily speak to my female friends, but i can be uncomfortable with a men. Of course, i have common hobbies, talkings with them. I have a close male friends. We are good and do something together, but i am shy when we talk talk about private subject such as boyfriend. So women and men can be friends, but this relationship is not too close. Both sides are more relax when they are with their own sex.

                                                     HISTORY OF ICE CREAM

      Do you know that ice cream whose consumption increase quickly with the coming of hot summer days is now 3.000 years old? Although it is thought that Chinese were the first race who met ice cream, heroes of the story of the first ice cream was Romans.

   Roman emperor, Neron, is widely known with his bellicosity also his gluttonous. While he was watching gladiator’s fights, he rewarded his chefs who served delicious meals to emperor. One day, one of the chefs filled the snow which he collected from a peak of mountain with compress in a container. He served it to emperor by pour honey and small fruits on it. Neron liked very much it which he had not tasted before. The other day he sent his soldiers to collect snow. He made chefs prepare the first ice cream by pouring honey and small fruits. These  method which come from Romans is still used by people who live in Anatolia, but they use it with one difference, they try to gain unique taste with molasses not honey.

  Homeland of the ice and cold beverages is always East countries. Those who lived in Anatolia, Arabians and Iranians drank ice sugary waters which called “şerbet” or drank ice fruit juices.  Western people, who met culture of the East, discovered flavors which were unique in East. Ice cream descriptions, which Marka Polo brought from China, gave a new sight to Italian chefs. They developed different ice creams on their own. Chefs who were exiled to France palace by Catherine of Florentine who was married to France king Henry II, taught to their France counterparts how to make ice cream. Ice cream coming to Europe in the seventeen century was famous in a short time.

    It is known that there were almost 250 ice cream shops in Paris. At 1851 Jacob Fussel began to make ice cream and buy in U.S.A.  In Italy there is a unique kind ice cream which is prepared with different ingredients: Semi- freddo. This famous ice cream is prepared by adding creamy biscuit before it is frozen. At old times ice cream was made in containers which were covered by salt and ice. After 1900, with the advent of refrigerator ice cream spread to all over world.  The cornet which gives a chick taste first appeared in World Exhibition which held on Missouri Louis at 1904.

  Ice cream in Turkey was prepared in special ice cream shops or by street ice cream sellers in the past.  Hand-churned ice cream became famous with a name called “Maraş ice cream”. Boiled milk intensified by adding salep is made cool by mixing. Combination whose environment is covered with ice layer is made frozen by beating. With this way ice cream become a dessert which stretch like gum and does not melt easily.