HOW TO MAKE A BOYFRIEND

 In the past,  women were shy to asking for date and men were supposed to make everthing. They are supposed to be brave and persistent. However this condition have changed in recently years. From now on, women also have been courageous and they are self-reliant enough to asking for a date to men, but they do not behave like men. They do not ask directly. To making a boyfriend, they have some tips and steps. Now i want to explain these steps J

1)    Make sure he doesn't have a girlfriend . Also, you have to be aware that if he just went through a break up, he might just be on rebound. The feelings wouldn't be what you are seeking.  So you have to stay away from this type of men

2)   Make the first move. If you find a man who you share a lot in common with, don't wait for them to ask you to hang out. He might be shy, so he might not be the one to approach, because he thinks you might reject him. If you love books, invite them to the library or a poetry night with you. Do something he might share in common with you.

3)   Take it slow. Try not to be that girl who looks too desperate. Do not rush him. Give each other space. Usually, if you hit it off really well and have a lot of fun together, the friendship will tend to automatically grow into more frequent visits.

4)   Smile. When he is looking at you, just smile. Humans respond to smiles intensely and immediately, and when heading towards a man of your choice, he'll get a powerful non-verbal message that you're nice and approachable. Even if you've never spoken before, he'll be compelled to notice and eventually say hello to you if you keep eye contact and smile.

5)   Be approachable. This is especially important if he's the kind of guy who's used to having girls approach him. Do nothing at first but lock eyes, smile, and turn your attention elsewhere or keep walking. Then he will come to near you.

6)   Engage him to talk. He won't know that you're great unless you've aroused his desire to know.

7)   Try to become friends. Most guys tend to date girls who they have more things in common than just the "relationship" stuff. Being close friends with him makes it easier for you to interact with him.

8)   Keep going. Keep meeting and hanging out with other people. Before you know it, you'll have a whole circle of friends. Variety is the spice of life, so it's important to build a network of friends.

9)   Show him that you would be a good fit for him. You can do this by sharing common interests such as certain music, but not overdoing it.

10) Make him feel important Guys seek status to satisfy their ego and as a female, a male's perception of your status is vital to how much he values you because in a way it reflects his own status.

11)  Don't criticize him harshly. Being criticized by a girl might make guy stay away from you. Do not criticize him harsly, buy you can tell in a mild way.

12) Just be yourself. If you're not, then how else would you know if he likes you or not for who you are? If you are pretending to be someone you are not, you will feel uncomfortable every time you are around him and that is the last thing you would like to happen.