HOW
TO MAKE A GIRLFRIEND
In my previous writing, i
mentioned about how women can make a boyfrind. Of course, being in a
relationship is just not only special to women. There can be a type of man who
needs a advice. In this writing i want to give tips to men to make a
girlfriend.
1)
Be her hero.
Whenever she is in trouble or worried about something, don't just sit there
with her. Ask her how you can help, but don't insist that she let
you. Be patient with
anything she goes through and be supportive.
2)
Don't fly too deep into the friend zone. Be friendly with her
without always being available. Girls love guys who are a bit mysterious, so
try to cultivate a bit of mystery — don't always pick up the phone, let on
where you're going, etc.
3)
Pay attention to how you look.
Your guy-friends probably don't care than you walk around in the same clothes
that you mow the lawn in, but the girl of your dreams probably won't be very
impressed. Shower and shave every day. Wear clothes that actually fit. every guy needs a good
pair of jeans, a fitting t-shirt, a simple but elegant collared shirt, and
shoes to fit the occasion.
4)
Be
charming:You
must at least have some kind of charm to appeal to a woman. Most men are charming
in a couple different ways. Be a gentleman. This means opening doors, paying
for a date, keeping your word, etc. Girls love to feel like a gentleman cares
about them.
Be
witty.
Girls love guys who
are great conversationalists, who can turn anything into a joke. Learn how to
elegantly make fun of yourself.
5)
Be reliable.
Every girl wants a guy who, at the end of the day, is reliable — dependable not
because he has to be, but because he wants to be. Being reliable is all about
telling a girl that she has security with you. Try to be the most reliable guy
you know.
6)
Try to be
funny: This
gives the girl a reason to relax. A person is more responsive and receptive
when relaxed. It helps you connect with her emotionally/intellectually. She
should enjoy your company and not be bored.
7)
Don't flirt with other girls too much. A girl might really like you but if she sees you
dancing or talking with another girl, that could be a dealbreaker. Make sure she
knows you're interested in only her.
8)
Compliment her.
Give her some good old-fashioned compliments. Don't compliment her ability to
do every little thing perfectly, or you'll seem too
needy or obsessive yourself. But a
well-placed compliment can make a girl remember you for days on end!
9)
Give her reasons to be reminded of you. Sing or hum songs, talk about movies, share favorite
places. Anything that, when she hears/sees it again, will make her think of
you.
10)
Balance your sensitive side with
your masculine side. Girls like guys who are in
touch with their feminine side without being girly at all. That means you have
to understand where she's coming from but still be thoroughly manly if you can.
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