CAN WOMEN AND MEN BE FRİENDS?

   Can women and men be friends?  I think there is no absolute answer for this question. It can be answered according to men’s perspective and women’s perspective. First of all i want to explain from the sight of women as i can do. Women are innocent, emotional etc. If someone take care of them, they will be happy. Their friends’ sexs are not important for them, because they keen on the relationship, well-enough communication. If they can tell everything to their male friends, it can alright for them to be friend.  They can do something together and this does not disturb women as long as they have no emotional feeling to each other. This can be answered “yes” by women honestly.

From the men’s perspective, this condition maybe is not valid for them. Men always think of “sex”.  Even Freud thinks no men can be friends with women whom they do not want to have sex relationship. I partially agree with this idea. I think most men have sexual desire women at first. Maybe with time, men decrease this feeling and can be friends with women. However men are not as emotional as women. Maybe they do not tell everything to women as women do. So i do not think  there are men who can absolutely say that i can be friend with women.

When it comes to my thought, i can be friends with a men, but i cannot tell everything to them. As a women, my problems are different from theirs. Maybe my problem is not important for them, even it can be silly for a man. I can easily speak to my female friends, but i can be uncomfortable with a men. Of course, i have common hobbies, talkings with them. I have a close male friends. We are good and do something together, but i am shy when we talk talk about private subject such as boyfriend. So women and men can be friends, but this relationship is not too close. Both sides are more relax when they are with their own sex.